Whether waiting in line at a store, waiting for the results of an exam, waiting for a baby to arrive, or just waiting for times to get better, waiting is not easy. However, the discipline that come in waiting is necessary for success in life. Patience is developed in waiting, but only if the waiting period is used wisely to reduce frustration, accept the wait, and make progress towards one’s goals while waiting. At some point in our waiting, we must realize that increased frustration only leads to impatience, and makes our wait time a waste of time.
When we are calm and thoughtful in our waiting time, we can use the time to plan, reflect, and evaluate, or simply enjoy the surroundings and the people. Waiting is only wasted time if it is spent in frustration and anger. The next time you find yourself waiting for someone, something, or some occurrence, try planning the rest of your day, planning the next conversation you will have with a loved one or business concern, use your cell phone notes apt to make a to-do-list, or calculate your expenses and income for your personal budget.
Waiting may not be easy but it can be extremely productive. When we cannot control situations and circumstances, we can always control ourselves, if we are disciplined for success.