Not everyone learns the same and not everyone processes information the same. From my observation it appears that we all have unique ways of learning and processing information. While some of us may learn better by hearing, others by seeing, others by touching, and still others by thinking and reading, each of us have unique ways of using common tools. Consequently, no style of learning will fit any of us perfectly like a glove.
Sometimes we use cookie cutter methods, attempting to put everyone into the same mold. We do not all look alike, or have the same fingerprints, retina scans, or voice signatures. For this reason, it is important that we bring our uniqueness, specialness, and special gifts to the world. In order to be free to be ourselves and freely give our gifts to the world, we must recognize that we all have special needs. When our needs are met on multiple levels, we find it easier to give, and give of ourselves to others.
The lyrics of a once popular song said, “be yourself, no matter what they say.” However, being ourselves is difficult when we are trying to conform to what others need or want us to be. Perhaps we need to learn to live as ‘aliens’ and citizens at the same time. This way will not become photocopies of one another and yet appreciate one another for what each of us brings to the table. Disciplining ourselves to be successful in what we are designed to be, requires that we know our special needs and special gifts, and that we get over the fear of meeting and using them. It also, means recognizing and respecting the same for others.